Influence is the best way to lead and move others toward what is good. We are not only intellectual but emotional creatures. (whew! I got that one covered! ) All of us have the capacity to manipulate. Manipulation is the use of influence to control others for personal gain. While manipulation is inherently evil, influence is the best way to lead and move others toward is good. As kids, we were totally influenced by our peers that were prettier, sharper, smarter or richer or more popular. What makes a person popular anyway? hmm...I'm thinking that we would rather be pulled and controlled by the force of power and consequence. It never really changes, even as adults.

The proper use of influence is huge if we are going to capture moments from God and share them with others through our life style. A life touched by God always ends in touching others. (McManus) I think what he means is there is a difference between private faith and personal faith. His intention is never an individualistic faith. Am I influencing others in a positive way? Am I influencing others toward good? Am I too casual with my speech? my actions? my faith?